DEAR DIARY: breaking up and moving on.
DATED: Tuesday, October 14, 2008 @ 9:50 AM

i know im sounding like Aunty Agony now. but, here's tips and stuff i wanna share with u about breaking up and moving on. breaking up is never fun. And i guess everyone has been through this stage and really is hard to get over someone you once loved really much. and yeah, that feeling of seeing that person, but is unable to reach him/her sucks. it sucks really bad. i hurts really bad. so here's stuff i found online.

1- ever felt like avoiding that person? yes, avoid. it's not being immature or whatever. but the more you see that person, the sadder you are gonna get. right? seeing your old flame will only bring out all the emotions and that's not gonna help u move on. wait till your heart is right and is able to accept the fact that you guys have broken up and then, embrace each other's new friendship with open arms.

2- talk to someone about how you're feeling. don't bottle your feelings and let your imagination runs wild and do foolish things. talk to your close friends. let them be your pillar or strengths. this is when you'll see a stronger friendship between you and your friends.

3- CRY ! go ahead and cry as much as you want. do not hold back your feelings. seriouslly, i lovee to cry, i cry because i dont want to bottle things out and crying is a way i express my emotions. for me, nothing beats more then crying. i feel so much better after crying out loud. so girls, go ahead and cry.

4- Throw away all the mementos. love letters, love pledges, anything that will remind you of your EX. (though i still keep all your love letters and text. i hid them in a box and was kept away from the rest of the world) if you girls or guys have these boxes that kept your Ex's memories, bury them or burn them away. or just keep them as far from you as possible.

5- don't slip back together with your EX. When you are feeling sad or missing a relationship it can be very easy to fall back in to the arms of your ex but DO NOT DO THIS. This will only set you back and let’s face it, if things ended ,the relationship wasn’t perfect to begin with, so why would you want to rekindle things?

okay, i dont know if it's that accurate. but that's what i got from the net and i added stuff which i think it's true about my experiences.